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woman.
Evelyn was born with cerebral palsy in 1933, a time when parents were
encouraged to not keep their children with disabilities at home. However,
that was not an option Evelyn’s parents would consider. They
took her home from the well-meaning doctors to the farm in the rural
North Platte area to manage the best they could. It was a challenge,
but when she was five years old she was finally able to walk on her
own.
Evelyn’s mother tried to enroll her in a nearby school when
she was seven years old, but that teacher would not allow Evelyn to
participate in her classroom. Undaunted, her mother tried the school
in Sutherland, where Evelyn was accepted and took regular classes
with the other children. She loved her classmates, an outgoing and
friendly characteristic that is still evident now. When the family
moved to town, she went to school in North Platte. Her brother and
two sisters were a great support to Evelyn, but it was not always
easy. She shared with us that she never was invited to the other girls’
homes for sleep-overs. Disappointment also came when Evelyn was ready
to graduate. Although she had completed the school work, she was not
allowed to have a diploma because she could not talk.
Evelyn’s work ethic and determination to be self-sufficient
drove her until she finally got a job at the hospital. There she had
a number of jobs, helping in the kitchen, helping the elderly to the
dining room, and finally working in the lab; washing and waxing the
floor and cleaning. Today, Evelyn is extremely proud of the fact that
she is now living on the money that she herself earned and saved.
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Evelyn worked at the
hospital for twenty-two years, leaving only when she needed to help
her mother. She cared for her mother for twenty-five years, until
a fall sent Evelyn’s mother to a nursing home. Shortly afterward,
Evelyn moved to an assisted living complex nearby, where she was
able to visit her mother daily.
Evelyn recognizes that until people get used to listening to her
speak, it is difficult to understand all of what she has to say.
As I interviewed her for this story, she typed words into her device
to have it “speak” to support what she said, helping
me understand. She and Cristi had also programmed some of the highlights
of her life so the LightWriter could speak them with a touch of
a button. Evelyn is now 74 years of age and finally has the opportunity
to be understood by acquaintances and to clarify herself if her
friends misunderstand what she says. When asked what she would have
done if she had been able to use a communication device when she
was younger, she replied without hesitation, “Help people
that are handicapped.”
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After meeting with Evelyn that first day, we
walked to the front of the building to go our separate ways, but
I got there long before she did. That was not because I could
walk faster, because when she wants, Evelyn can clip right along,
even with her walker. It was because she stopped to talk to everyone
she knew – for her, it seems that no one is a stranger!
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